Things aren’t looking good.
But then you find that small tool, that one that’s in your pocket, shoved in with all the other random stuff that you wrote off as useless, that one thing that if used at just the right time, can save your life….and the life of your family.
Ever notice how it’s the small things that make the biggest difference? It’s not the lottery ticket, the degree, the big move, new position or the big purchase that changes everything…it’s using the right tool at just the right time.
The work of changing your relationship, digging into the work of the heart, learning new skills and sharpening the tools to MacGyver your marriage is like this too.
Often fear, anger, resentment, stress & hurt stand between us and our marriage surviving….and that tool has been in our pocket the whole time.
It doesn’t have to be long or painful years of therapy, pretending to be someone you’re not, swallowing your pride or forcing your partner to see things your way. It’s about refining yourself to be the best man you can be. Pulling the essential pieces together at just the right time to save the day, your heart and your future.